As I write this last column of the year, I am looking forward to being with my family, at home in Cornwall for Christmas. For me Christmas is a special time of year and I really enjoy the preparations and sharing the day with as many of my family as can make it.
I also enjoy inviting someone who would otherwise be on their own. It’s a habit I started when I was young and living overseas when I couldn’t afford to make it home. So I recreated the sense of family with others who were also stranded, far from their loved ones. My favourite Christmas away from home was spent cooking a traditional British Christmas lunch, on a very rickety old stove, in the Riverside Church shelter for homeless men in New York City.
Based on my personal experiences over the years, I very much support the Diocese of Truro Christmas appeal for people to consider inviting a neighbour or friend, who might be on their own, to join them for a meal over the Christmas festivities.
I am really pleased that so many local people will be joining community events to share the spirit of Christmas with their friends and neighbours. I hope that if you or someone you know is feeling lonely that you will join the many community events happening in Falmouth and Penryn.
The Salvation Army on Brook Street in Falmouth with be providing a Christmas Day Lunch for the community and homeless at 12.00 noon. There will be a Church Service at 11.00 am and all are welcome to come along. For further details contact Alison Godwin on 01326 314567.
The Winter Night Shelter Cornwall Project (WNSC) will provide night shelters in December and January. Last winter we accommodated 111 rough sleepers and 75 % of these were helped into permanent accommodation as a result of their contact with the service. WNSC could be a life saver for those with no home and also provides companionship and food. The night shelters need a large number of volunteers to make this project a success. Full training and expenses will be given to prepare for this challenging, but always rewarding service to those in most need.
Any support you can give this important work will be gratefully received and if you need any further information please do not hesitate to contact the Diocesan Social Responsibility Officer Andrew Yates on 01872 274351 or e-mail Andrew.firstname.lastname@example.org
or Corinna Langford at St Petroc’s 01872 264153 email@example.com.
Britain, according to government figures, is the loneliness capital of Europe, but even – or perhaps especially – here, the urge to connect is overwhelming. But I am concerned in this post Brexit Britain that people are feeling less part of our community. Some people tell me that even talking about Brexit has become such a difficult topic of conversation that they have stopped talking to colleagues or friends all together.
It should be possible for all of us to listen to each other respectfully and appreciate and value our differences. Kindness in my opinion is a much undervalued characteristic. Going forward we need to step back from the angry, even hateful public discourse that has been a sad feature of 2016 and commit to reconnecting with each other in 2017. From spending time with people all around my constituency I know that there is much more that unites us than divides us.
As George Monbiot recently wrote in The Guardian, “This reattachment, I believe, holds the key to both our psychological and political transformation. Connected, engaged and happy people do not allow themselves to be trampled into the dirt. It is when we are estranged both from each other and from our political environment that we are easiest to manipulate, as the rise of demagoguery in Europe and the US seems to attest. Without the power of kindness our society will fall apart”
All that remains for me is to wish you a very Happy Christmas. It continues to be both an honour and privilege to serve this community as your MP and I am very much looking forward to continuing my work for you in 2017.
Published by Falmouth Wave Magazine